Alarm clock ticking and ringing . with a sneaky peeky eyes, i turned off the alarm.
Oh shit! I can’t be late again.
she takes a quick shower and runs to the kitchen. she was confused where to start and barely tasted the coffee she prepared herself and for her husband. she leaves the house making sure all is neat and clean and locked the door. Holding the Key tight in one hand and the lunch pack for her husband in the other hand, she manages to reach the car quick. Her regular breakfast was that tea from the shop at the other end of the road and a quick sandwich. she manages to take a quick short naps wherever possible and reaches the office and when she signs in at 5 min late their are big fat mouths everywhere.
she settles down at her desk with a deep relieving breathe. The day starts with a starring boss at one end and a nagging colleagues on the other hand.
Hey! Are you fine ! asked me my only compatible colleague. Yeah. it is just the another same day i got late was my reply.
Office phone rings……..
” Hello , How can i help you ” And the day goes like that solving the client problems, file works, assignments, meeting deadlines, meetings. I used to start at 8 a.m. and finish at 9 p.m. or later. I’d grab a bite to eat in the five-minute break I had between meetings.
Felt like life can go forever like this and suddenly when she turned back she felt she is missing something that was the Balance. she felt like the rope connecting her Work and Family was missing.
We realized that it was as important to nurture our marriage . So we decided to make some changes.
she makes coffee — and they sit and talk about family, the news, vacations they would like to take, or politics. The meet friends, have dinner , had some “US TIME ” Starting the day this way ensures SHE keeps her focus on being a wife first and working woman next.
Women still have to do the lion’s share of housework despite going out to work. Researchers found that they spent three times as long on domestic chores, such as cooking, cleaning and washing, food shopping, looking after sick relatives and carrying out repairs
Look at her ,so much of attitude she has.
Look at her so much of arrogance she has. Can’t even smile.
Hey !look at her running behind money leaving her daughter at home. I wonder ,how she manages to be at home. she might be having a maid.
Look at her , she got promotion. I wish , i should have been a woman
Look at her always late to office.
Her husband asked her do you wanna quit? and she smiled and said Me Never.
she never quits being the woman her husband wants, being the woman her mother in law wants, being the Daughter her parents wants, being the mother her children wants,being the woman her office wants, being the bold women her stalker wants.she keeps doing the same and keeps being the same.
BY THE WAY I WOULD LOVE TO ANSWER BACK FEW OF THE QUESTION YOU STICKED ON ME
Look at her ,so much of attitude she has.
OHH NO, Did i hurt your Ego?
Look at her so much of arrogance she has. Can’t even smile.
ohh man!! If i smile you might call me slut, i can manage with this arrogance. even the arrogance has a beauty you know.
Hey !look at her running behind money leaving her daughter at home. I wonder ,how she manages to be at home. she might be having a maid.
okay. Then do one thing take care of my daughter’s future expenses as i would like to meet all her basic needs and the needs i could full fill. Let me know when you are ready.It would be gratefull.
Look at her , she got promotion. I wish , i should have been a woman
“Gender inequalities in all areas are rooted in social structures but also in attitudes,” If i get promotion it is because i had some extra stuffs that you don’t have. If you get then it is purely the hot ass job you did. HURRAY!!!!!!!!!!
Look at her always late to office.
YEEAH !! i got a family to take care and some serious responsibility to do which i manage to do. I can’t afford to lose any. “women are assigned and spend more time on non-promotable tasks than men [our emphasis]. These non-promotable tasks are any activity that is beneficial to the organization, but does not contribute to career advancement.” So basically, things men don’t want to do are being handed to women. and that belongs to both home and work.
A woman’s decision to work is personal and should not be judged by society, family or friends.
Is it possible they actually ‘have it all’?
The assumption being that if work and life is hard enough to balance . I WOULD SAY NO , UNTIL YOU GOT A HUSBAND LIKE MINE. A husband can help his wife better deal with the emotion of guilt. Working moms often feel guilty about not being present 100% of the time for their family. As women, we want to have the option to work and have a career, as well as raise a family without the stigma. Two income households have become the majority and yet we still face societal pressure. We often struggle with trying to be the perfect mom and wife and also perform to the level of our male counterparts at work. All we need is Just being there, listening and providing a shoulder to lean can do wonders . So next time if the world keep talking .Just go grab your husband’s hands and let them know the real worls is next to you.
Compassion and understanding from our spouses is so important as it allows us to do what we love
SO KEEP POSTING THE QUESTIONS ON ME ,WHILE I WALK THE AISLE WITH MY HUSBAND
when you are alone friends are your family. I am blessed with one.So then we had some random Food Hogging. We did went to Downtown cafe Dubai, Just T cafe which is attached with sheesha and some nice board games. We are so much hooked to this UNO games like we might end up Hitting or Killing each other . Lol. They serve yummy food and Have really a huge seating capacity. so take your group and Hang out their.
Lily Hijabi 